I’m not sure what it is…I’m just going to be honest about it. I haven’t been blogging since the start of 2019. I didn’t even really do a proper post when I finished my #40booksin2018 goal! I want to be honest about my absence and quit making excuses for myself and maybe then I will be able to figure out what’s going on with me.
I’m not always motivated to write. I love to write, but sometimes I deliberately avoid it. It doesn’t matter how much time I do or do not have, how many positive quotes I save as my lock screen wallpaper, or how many times I say to myself, “I’ll write later today.” I still don’t write when I don’t feel like it.
For the first time in my life, I’m actually sick of my feelings running my life. I don’t “feel” like working out. I don’t “feel” like getting up early. I don’t “feel” like writing. I don’t “feel” like working on that project. True I don’t HAVE to get up at 5am. I don’t HAVE to work out. I don’t HAVE to write a blog. However, if I want a different kind of life, don’t I HAVE to do the things most people would not do? Yes. Getting where you want to be is not easy. I used to think if I was just making progress, I wouldn’t care how hard it was to get it done. That’s definitely not true. I care A LOT. I’m a bit of a wimp when it comes to sticking it out. When things get tough, I tend to bail.
I rarely look at my shortcomings because it makes me so uncomfortable. I’m not doing this for anyone to feel sorry for me. I’m facing this reality because you have to admit when there is a problem or you will never start looking for a solution. The hardest part of the solution to my problem…is the fact that it is simple. Easy answers are always the hardest to implement. I simply have to ignore how I feel and do what needs to be done regardless of whether or not I’m in the mood. Easier said than done, I know.
So, obviously…I need a plan. *cue the dramatic music*
So if you don’t already know, I am a journal freak! I have way too many and I use them for different things. I have a traditional journal where I write on big days in my life (birthdays, graduations, etc.). I have a complaining journal where I’m allowed to say whatever I want even if it’s hurtful (it helps me work through my feelings and thought processes). I even have a time-of-the-month journal…go ahead and judge me if you want. Lol.
This is a journal by Atticus, an amazing poet (which is no longer available, unfortunately, *sad face*)! Get his second book, The Dark Between Stars here on Amazon and follow him on Instagram @atticuspoetry
He also has some amazing prints for sale on his website at: www.atticuspoetry.com
I’ve decided this will be where I write down my victories. I will plan them and I will execute them, one at a time.
My first priority is an illustration project I’ve been working on for over a year now.
My second priority is to read at least 100 pages a day.
My third priority is writing either for my blog or for my novel, every day. It doesn’t matter the volume. Simply write every day. I need to create that habit of writing. You’ve got to write a lot of crap so you can get to the good stuff. lol
Let’s see if I can make my New Years’ resolutions last a little longer than February 1st. lol